Flesh-pressing wonderings
Aug. 26th, 2009 08:02 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
So, a discussion this morning moved me to ask y'all this:
There's a good chance people who read my LJ are fairly open and upfront about their sexual desires, wants, et al. It's probably safe to assume you have all at one point or another provided instructions or request to new and long-term lovers about how to best please you (like this, faster, softer, to the left, the other flogger, counterclockwise hip rotations aimed at the mid-lower hemisphere, and so on...)
Have you ever point-blank asked someone to kiss you in a specific way?
Is that "verboten" for some reason, is it so interwoven as to who were are as beings, it's something one just has to have be "right" and it can't be tuned to meet the affection-engaging needs of the participants? You think once someone has placed their mouth on your genitals, you should be able to bring kissing up, too.
Discuss ;)
There's a good chance people who read my LJ are fairly open and upfront about their sexual desires, wants, et al. It's probably safe to assume you have all at one point or another provided instructions or request to new and long-term lovers about how to best please you (like this, faster, softer, to the left, the other flogger, counterclockwise hip rotations aimed at the mid-lower hemisphere, and so on...)
Have you ever point-blank asked someone to kiss you in a specific way?
Is that "verboten" for some reason, is it so interwoven as to who were are as beings, it's something one just has to have be "right" and it can't be tuned to meet the affection-engaging needs of the participants? You think once someone has placed their mouth on your genitals, you should be able to bring kissing up, too.
Discuss ;)
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Date: 2009-08-26 03:19 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-08-26 07:04 pm (UTC)That said, I tend to use kissing as a chemistry compatibility test, so someone whose kisses leave me clammy is unlikely to have gotten much further.
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Date: 2009-08-26 10:35 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-08-27 02:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-27 04:43 am (UTC)He is my saviour
And he rewards my good behavior
My secret soul, I know he's seen it
He says, come here baby and
Kiss me like you mean it
He calls me baby, says kiss me like you mean it
He is my life and my salvation
He's always right
He's always patient
I pinch myself It's like I'm dreaming it...
He is my love, He's always been it...
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Date: 2009-10-23 07:27 pm (UTC)